An expectation that is not right nor wrong. Just is.

My expectations that my partner would always be by my side is one I know I still hold too tight.

There are things out of our control. My expectation can be taken away in a split second. Changing my world. If I am too attached to this expectation of how things “should” be, my world will crumble.

So I try my best to focus on what is, and not what if. Ensure my guiding light is within and not an external. Which does not mean to say I don’t cherish each moment with my loves either.

mmmm hope that makes sense? It is challenging to explain the unexplainable.

I hope your friend’s tricky situation unfolds the clarity for her soon.

Thanks again and always for being you.



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