…lying, I have serious doubts that he would be open and honest, which would make it a waste of time. At some point, I may go to a counselor myself for support. Why I actually believed he’d be able to be faithful to me when he felt neglected (instead of discus…
We all get blinded by love.
I think you know you need to do this for you.
One thing that always sticks in my mind is to focus on what is in my control. I can’t change my partner. I can only change me. I have been through many ups and downs over my 20 year relationship… but the big crash has taken the last two years to “heal” me…. It was my perception and self worth I needed to focus on most before I could heal my relationship.
That’s not to say he didn’t need to do work too, but since that was out of my control. I actually asked for the energy to get through… it did start to show up when I looked for it.
K yep. We all have a different path to walk…just wanted to share some of mine in case it hit some of your own insights.
Please remember you are more than enough. You are loved. You can give yourself the love and support you need right now…
Sending you energy and love.
Thanks for being you x