Yes! The crux of it all.
I have shed a few layers of codependency on my partner’s drinking over the last couple of years. Started with reading Codependency No More by Melody Beattie… then some meetings at al-anon. Before hitting the self improvement hard….
Just when I thought I had cut all the ties, the universe kindly showed me I had a few thin threads still attached.
I am not “Knowing” enough yet to believe the ties are fully cut…but they are closer to be.
Your piece took me back to who I was in the 90’s… I smiled. Blissfully happy to know I have shattered those filters from who I was then.
Thank you for gifting me space to reflect.
Thank you for being you.